Saturday, December 14, 2013

Nora and May

In class, I wondered why we were reading The Age of Innocence and Doll House at the same time. Of course, I assumed there would be at least some similarities, but the two works seem to parallel each other very closely. The two female character, especially, resemble each other.
Both May and Nora are manipulative while acting innocent. They’re both subtle, so the men don’t realize it. However, Nora is relatively more obvious in her manipulation. She is clearly playing a role. She acts childish and helpless around her husband so that he never suspects her. In the beginning, Nora acts naïve and childish so that Torvald gives her money. She is his little lark or doll or songbird. When she wants to help Kristine, she tells Kristine not to worry because she’ll take care of it. However, when talking to Torvald, Nora makes it sound like it was all Torvald’s idea. Plus, in order to keep him away from the mailbox, Nora pretends to need help on her dance. She knows that Torvald loves to help and care for her, so she claims to need his attention and assistance. She flatters and manipulates him to get what she wants. In the same way, May manipulates Archer when she needs information. While talking to Archer, May lets slip a comment about Ellen’s marriage. Archer defends Ellen’s decision not to return to her husband, so May drops the subject and says nothing more. It isn’t until much later that Archer figures it out. May was trying to gauge Archer’s feelings about Ellen’s separation from Count Olenska. The Mingotts had previously relied on Archer when dealing with Ellen. It was Archer who convinced Ellen not to get a divorce. However, when Archer defends Ellen’s decision to stay away from her husband, May tells her family, and they cut him out of their talks. May’s seemingly innocent comment was actually a way for her to test Archer. Additionally, May comes to realize that Archer loves Ellen. So, when she meets with Ellen, May tells Ellen that she is pregnant. May tells Ellen this two weeks before she is sure; Ellen was told two weeks before Archer. May tells Ellen mainly because she knew it would force Ellen to reconsider having an affair with Archer. Of course, this information caused Ellen to decide to leave. Thus, May got what she wanted; Ellen left Archer. Both women, Nora and May, manipulated the situation to carry out their own agenda while their husbands thought they were just innocent. Archer even says that he doubts May will ever have a thought or emotion that surprised him.

Both works question the society it takes place in along with its beliefs on marriage and duty. May and Nora relied on their husband. May, for this reason, manipulates Ellen into leaving so that Archer stays with her. Nora, on the other hand, decides to leave and make her own life. Despite their similarities, both women chose different paths in the end. The endings give rise to another question: Whose choice was the better one?